When a person acts on emotions, the person is allowing the emotions to take over the thoughts. The emotions prepare the body for action. When the emotions become triggered, the trigger hitting the inner source is either negative or positive. Thus to give you an example of emotional response we can provide an illustration, but for the most part when a person has control over the emotions he/she has inner peace.
Example: one woman focusing on work felt a sense of relaxation, however her young son makes a statement that goes something like this. Mom, you do not care if I live or die.
Thus the mother’s emotions were triggered, since the son is dearest to her heart, so now she is wondering in her mind why her son feels such way.
As you can see, chaos comes in the example, which is one of the main reasons why people cannot find inner peace. The emotions and thoughts are complex, since if the mechanisms of human nature do not find quiet the person will feel distress.
Therefore, we see an inner peace requires quiet emotions and thoughts. To find your inner peace you must learn self-talk. Mothers often have difficulty since they must care for self, while thinking about their mate, children, and what they need to fill fulfilled. Thus, moms searching for inner peace would be wise to take care of their tasks now, and find area in their day to relax for self.
The many problems today make it difficult to find inner peace. Financial obligations, children, world problems, self-problems and other problems often make it difficult to find quietness of the mind and emotions. Thus, I learned that minimizing the news that the media brings to me has taking a load of my mind. The world problems is something that I cannot do anything about, thus I petition the government and protest the laws, still I do not allow room for the things that I cannot change.
Allowing others to take up residence in your mind is only causing emotional stress. Thus, taking control of your mind means that you are not willing to allow anyone to rent space in your head, especially if the source does not trigger the emotions and thoughts to smile.
The emotions store mechanisms that destroy inner peace. The emotions have information that comes from the subconscious mind. Guile information such as jealousy, desire, anger, hate, et cetera is all stored within the subconscious mind, which reflects on the emotions. Thus, setting back and analyzing self is the answer to finding a resolve. When we express thoughts and emotions, the reflection presents itself to the public. Thus, anyone around you if observant will notice the behaviors displayed by you, a will form an opinion of the type of person you are.
Therefore, if you are lost to your inner self, you may want to ask friends and family what they feel the type of person you are. This will help you come to grip with your self, thus you can start the process of finding your inner peace.
All of us are imperfect human beings. Thus, to work toward perfection is only destroying self. Of course, we can work hard to minimize bad habits and behaviors, but never allow your self-think that you are working toward perfection, since you will be let down at the end of the road, and inner peace will not arrive.
Impulses must be analyzed when self-analyzing self. If you are the type that acts out on impulse, thus, you will not find inner peace since your emotions and thoughts control your actions, behavior and attitude. Impulses are response to emotions that enforces action. If you are accustom to acting out impulsively with every decision you make, thus you will live life looking back at the mistakes you made and kicking your self because the habit and behaviors never cease.
Learning is growing. When you learn from your mistakes, you are tearing down the turbulences that take away from your inner peace. Finding inner peace takes time, effort, skill, and the will to achieve.